Proper observance of etiquette is as much a part of your
training as is learning techniques. Standards of etiquette may vary somewhat
from one dojo or organization to another, but the following guidelines are
nearly universal. Please take matters of etiquette seriously.
1. It is said that “training begins and ends with rei
(etiquette)”. Etiquette is not just a formality, it is a way of training
your awareness, your body, and your spirit. Please try to perform the
etiquette associated with this art from the heart, and not just as an
empty movement.
2. When entering or leaving the dojo, it is proper to
execute a standing bow in the direction of O-sensei's picture, the
kamiza, or the front of the dojo. You should also perform a seated bow
when entering or leaving the mat.
3. It is appropriate to bow are when asking or
thanking a partner for practice and after receiving instruction from the
teacher. When asking for advice or practice say “Onegaishimasu”, when
thanking someone say “Arigato gozaimashita”.
4. No shoes are allowed on the mat, nor are food, gum,
or beverages.
5. Keep your training uniform clean and in good shape,
and your fingernails and toenails clean and cut short. Remove all
jewelry before practice to avoid causing injury to yourself or your
partner.
6. Be on time for class. Students line up and sit in
seiza a few moments before the official start of class. Use this time to
quiet your mind, and to reflect on what you are here to do at this time.
If you do happen to arrive late, bow in on the mat and sit quietly in
seiza on the edge of the mat until the instructor grants permission to
join practice. Then, bow in to the instructor and join class.
7. If you should have to leave the mat or dojo for any
reason during class, notify the instructor.
8. Avoid sitting on the mat with your back to the
picture of O-sensei. Also, do not lean against the walls or sit with
your legs stretched out.
9. Please keep talking during class to a minimum. Try
to learn with your body, rather than by discussion.
10. Students should seek out partners and not
passively wait to be chosen. Take an active part in your own training
and development.
11. Weapons, uniforms and all equipment should be
carried in a bag when outside the dojo. Never use another person’s
weapons without permission.
12. Remember that you are in class to learn, and not
to gratify your ego. An attitude of receptivity is therefore advised.
13. The cleanliness of the mat and whole dojo is
important. Please take great efforts to clean the mat and dojo after
each class, or any time you notice something is in need of attention.
14. Please pay your dues on time. Dues are not a fee
for instruction, it is a fee for maintaining your status as a member of
the dojo. If there is some difficulty or question please feel free to
ask one of the instructors so we can help you. Our members are of the
utmost priority to us.
It is common for people to ask about the practice of
bowing in Aikido. In particular, many people are concerned that bowing may
have some religious significance. It does not. In Japanese culture, it is a
way of greeting someone and of showing sincerity. Incorporating this
particular aspect of Japanese culture into our Aikido practice serves
several purposes:
Bowing is an expression of respect. As such, it indicates an open-minded
attitude and a willingness to learn from one's teachers and fellow students.
Bowing to a partner may serve to remind you that your
partner is a person - not a practice dummy. Always train within the limits
of your partner's abilities.
While training is in session, you should behave in a
certain manner. A certain level of decorum should be maintained, as is
appropriate for a place where development of self and techniques of life and
death are taught. You should always remember that Aikido is a martial art
and as such, deserves your full attention. Bowing is a means of
acknowledging the importance of the training you are engaged in.
